I recently read a story originally told by Mendy Kofman about a Jewish family that survived Communist Russia and resettled in the USA. Against all odds, this family remained Torah observant in the depths of the most anti-religious empire in the world.
>At a marriage celebration for this familyās daughter, a Rabbi stood up to praise the family for their spiritual strength. He concluded by saying, āAnd God helped them, and they got out of Russiaā¦ā
Suddenly, the father of the bride, in a booming Russian accent, said, āGod didnāt help us get out of Russia!ā
The Rabbi was shocked! Had this father suddenly become a heretic?
In the Torah portion of Haazinu, we see a very interesting verse:
According to the Sages, the second half of this verse should be understood as, āWhen He sees that the enemy progresses and no one [feels that they] will be saved or assisted.ā
The verse implies that the final redemption (the vindication and revenge) will only happen when there is no hope for redemption. Rabbi Yaakov Kaminetzky asks, āWhy do the Sages say that the redemption will not come until the Jewish people ālose all hope of redemptionā?
Wait, donāt despair! Rabbi Kaminetsky answers his own question, and I think youāll appreciate it. But first letās get back to our original story. After repeating a second time that āGod didnāt help us get out of Russiaā, the father continued softly, āGod didnāt help us and didnāt assist us. God did EVERYTHING!ā
Similarly, Rabbi Kaminetsky explains that the Sages arenāt speaking about losing hope in the actual redemption by God. They are speaking about losing hope in the lesser means of āredemptionā that we hope for.
Often we place too much hope in our own actions, in other people, in political parties, in armies, or in anything other than God. Once we as individuals, and all of humanity, realize that the redemption will come from God alone, and we turn to Him, then the final redemption will come.
This recognition of, and reliance on, God will also be a fulfillment of the verse:
From this we learn that even though we must work to bring it closer, the redemption is ultimately in Godās hands. When we reach that level of humility, and turn to God, we will merit the true and final redemption.
May it come soon, and in our days!