What’s the difference between getting high on drugs and getting high on God?
Rabbi Shlomo Katz explains based on the Torah portion of Toldot that a Godly high keeps you high, but getting high on drugs, leaves you feeling low.
This article explores key spiritual insights from the Torah portion Toldot (Genesis 25:19-28:9), focusing on the themes of humility, mystery in relationships, and the concept of undeserved gifts.
The Mystery of Relationships
The Torah portion begins with a seemingly redundant statement about Isaac being Abraham’s son. This repetition teaches us about the depth and mystery in relationships:
- Abraham saw Isaac as a mystery, only able to say, “I’m his father.”
- Isaac viewed Abraham similarly, acknowledging him as his father but continually discovering more about him.
- This approach keeps relationships fresh and allows for continuous growth and discovery.
The Power of Humility
The story of Jacob receiving Isaac’s blessing illustrates the importance of humility:
- Jacob felt unworthy of the blessing, approaching it with a broken heart.
- This contrasts with Esau, who felt entitled to the blessing.
- Humility creates space for blessings to enter and take effect in one’s life.
Life as an Undeserved Gift
A key teaching from the portion is the concept of life and blessings as undeserved gifts (Matnat Chinam):
- Viewing life and relationships as unearned gifts leads to a higher spiritual state.
- This perspective fosters gratitude and wonder in daily life.
- It’s especially important for parents to view their children as undeserved gifts.
The “Dew” of Constant Presence
Isaac’s blessing to Jacob mentions the “dew of heaven,” teaching about constancy in relationships:
- Dew, unlike rain, is always present.
- This symbolizes the importance of being consistently present for others.
- “Dew friends” are those who are always there, regardless of circumstances.
Practical Applications
The teachings from this portion can be applied in several ways:
- Approach relationships with curiosity and openness, avoiding the assumption that we fully know others.
- Cultivate humility by recognizing our blessings as undeserved gifts.
- Strive to be a constant, supportive presence in the lives of loved ones.
By internalizing these lessons, we can elevate our spiritual lives and deepen our connections with others and with the Divine.
