In the wake of profound loss, the family of Rabbi Avraham Yosef Goldberg, a beloved educator and community leader who lost his life in southern Lebanon, made a remarkable request during their week of mourning. They asked that any Israeli politicians visiting to offer condolences come not individually but side by side, crossing party lines. This call for unity in a time of sorrow reflects the spirit of Rabbi Goldberg’s life. Known for his commitment to building bridges and fostering respectful dialogue, he left a legacy of unity that is especially meaningful in times of conflict and division.
The Goldberg family’s request brings to mind the words Psalms 133:1:
In his commentary, Rabbi David Altschuler, known as the Metzudat David, explains that this verse speaks of the unique beauty and blessing when all of Israel lives together harmoniously on their land. He emphasizes that the term “brothers” refers to the strong bond that unites the people of Israel, a connection so deep that it binds them as family, regardless of individual differences. This unity, he adds, will be complete when Israel is no longer divided into two kingdoms, as it once was, but instead united under one monarchy.
This call for unity is especially relevant today, as Israel faces serious challenges. The brutal attack by Hamas on October 7, 2023, left deep scars on countless families and has led to ongoing conflicts in Gaza and Lebanon. These tragic events unfolded amid a backdrop of significant internal division within Israel, marked by intense internal division and ideological clashes. In this context, the Goldberg family’s request for a show of unity becomes a powerful symbol. They hoped that those coming to honor Rabbi Goldberg would do so as representatives of a united people, not divided factions.
This message of unity also resonates with the Torah’s teaching to “Love your neighbor as yourself” (Leviticus 19:18), which Rabbi Akiva called the central principle of the Torah. This commandment encourages us to look beyond differences and see every individual as part of a larger family, with all of Israel bound together. Loving one’s neighbor is not limited to those who share our views or backgrounds. Instead, it challenges us to see the divine image in every individual and to recognize all of Israel as “brothers,” bound by a spiritual connection that transcends individual ideologies.
The Metzudat David’s interpretation highlights that the “good and pleasant” reality of “dwelling together” is not merely a poetic ideal but an essential element of resilience and strength. This unity fortifies Israel from within, fostering a sense of shared purpose and responsibility. The Goldberg family’s choice to use this moment to call for unity underscores the profound impact of such harmony. Just as the verse in Psalms describes, the beauty of “dwelling together” lies in embracing one another as family, especially in times of crisis.
These challenges are not limited to Israel. The recent, closely contested U.S. presidential election has similarly tested the nation, revealing deep divisions within the American population. In both countries, we are reminded of how easily political differences can obscure our shared values and our higher calling to unity.
The Goldberg family’s request for politicians to come together in pairs—one from the coalition and one from the opposition—calls upon leaders to model this spirit of unity. It invites us to act as Rabbi Goldberg did, bridging divides with respect, compassion, and a commitment to the welfare of our communities. In honoring his memory, we each have the opportunity to embody his vision of unity. By engaging in meaningful dialogue, extending kindness, and respecting those with differing views, we can choose to be ambassadors of peace in a fractured world.
The Metzudat David’s vision, as echoed in the Goldberg family’s request, reminds us of the profound beauty and strength in coming together. Unity is not just an ideal; it is the foundation upon which the resilience of our people rests. May the memory of Rabbi Avraham Yosef Goldberg inspire us to live out this vision of unity and peace, both in Israel and beyond. May his legacy be a blessing, and may we each strive to embody the values he cherished: bridging gaps, fostering love, and building bonds that transcend individual differences.
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